Friday, November 4, 2011

5 Cheap Date Ideas

Exciting news: you have a date coming up. It may be with someone you've had your eye on for a long time, or just someone who has piqued your interest. With not a lot of money to spare, though, it may seem like your options are limited.

Having a good time doesn't have to correlate to spending a lot of money. (You have a budget to stick to, after all!) Any one of these five ideas can turn into a fun date without breaking the bank.

1. Head to a small, family-owned restaurant instead of a large chain. Ask around campus to see if people know of smaller, delicious, and often cheaper places than some of the larger chain restaurants in town. The dinner will most likely be quieter, more intimate, and much more friendly.

2. Find something fun (and free) in the community. Is there a poetry slam this weekend? A reading by an author you both like? A band performing in a park? Check to see what's available that won't cost much and will allow you to get to know each other better while enjoying something new and fun.

3. Do something outside. Buy sandwiches at a local deli, go for a hike, and have a picnic somewhere nice.

4. Visit a cultural center. Many museums, art galleries, cultural centers, and libraries have reduced (if not free) admission for college students. Go see an exhibit and enjoy the time off campus.

5. Meet for coffee or a drink instead of dinner. Getting together doesn't have to mean having a huge (and often expensive) meal. Meet for coffee in the afternoon or drinks in the evening. You can have an equally nice time without having to spend as much money.

(No matter what your dating plans are, though, make sure you stay safe while out.)


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Do I Have to Show My Parents My Grades?

A frequent question I heard when I worked on a college campus -- especially as midterm time approached -- was from students wondering if they had to show their parents their grades. It's a tricky question, but for most students, the answer is "no."

Of course, not showing your parents your grades is a choice that can lead to some serious complications in your relationship with your parents. Letting your parents know that you're failing a class might be a better option than, say, refusing to show them your grades for fall semester. Either way, though, it is important to know your rights as a college student and what choices you have to make as you enter into independent adulthood.


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Campus Highlight: Ohio University's Students Teaching About Racism in Society

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(Each Monday during the academic year, I feature a "Campus Highlight": a unique, interesting, and noteworthy student organization, program, or initiative that demonstrates the amazing things college students do each and every day across the country.)

Given that today is Halloween, I wanted to use this week's Campus Highlight to draw attention to a student organization that I mentioned in a blog last week and that has been receiving quite a bit of media coverage for their "We're a culture, not a costume" campaign.

Students Teaching Against Racism in Society (STARS) at Ohio University (Athens, OH) recently created a poster campaign that addresses the tradition of dressing up in a cultural "costume" for Halloween. As the posters so directly point out, for many people, these kinds of costumes "[are] not who I am and [are] not okay." All too often, these kinds of "costumes" reflect ignorance and stereotypes of the cultures and people behind them. You can see a few of the posters in my profile of STARS.

The campaign has received massive media attention, including the international media and even CNN. So congrats are definitely in order for an organization that not only created an effective awareness and education campaign, but also helped further discussion and dialogue about the very thing they are trying to combat in society. Well done, STARS!


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Thursday, November 3, 2011

Are You Ready to Vote Next Week?

In many locations, next week is election week. Are you ready and able to vote?

Voting in college, of course, can be a bit more complicated given that you may be away from home and/or may need to vote absentee. You can check out my FAQ about voting in college to find answers to all of your election-related questions -- or, if you're feeling kinda lazy, you might want to motivate yourself by learning 10 reasons you should vote as a college student.


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Managing & Saving Money

Trying to learn how to manage and save your money while in school can be a challenge that often seems impossible. With these guidelines, however, you can set yourself down the path toward financial responsibility without becoming overwhelmed with rules, limitations, and details.

Make a Budget Before You Arrive

If you've never made a budget before, it can seem overwhelming. Luckily, though, with a little basic math, you can figure out what your budget will be. Figure out what your "income" is (payments from student loans, campus job paychecks, and/or help from Mom and Dad). Then figure out what your "expenses" are, and when they're due (tuition at the beginning of the term, books at the start of the semester, dues for a fraternity or sorority, etc.). Once you have those figures for the semester (or even year), break them down into what your income and expenses will be each month. As long as your income is more than your expenses, you're in great shape and can make a budget.

Any "leftover" money each month (i.e., money that comes in but that isn't already allocated) should still be budgeted. For example, if you have $100 "extra" each month, you could budget $30 for going out to eat, $30 for music, and $40 for clothes. Then, once you hit that amount, you know that you can't spend anymore without taking it from another expense (next month's rent, perhaps?!). Have a general budget for your finances before you start school to prevent any problems as the semester progresses.

Get a Campus Job

If, after making your budget, you find that you would like, or even need, some additional income, consider finding an on-campus job. Most students work while attending school. On-campus jobs are often much friendlier to student needs (extra time off around finals, more flexible hours, and bosses familiar with having student workers) than off-campus jobs. Additionally, some jobs (in the library, in the mailroom, or at the campus coffee shop, for example) will let you get homework done when and if things are slow.

Use Your Student Discount

No matter where you're going to school, the nearby and surrounding communities are used to having students around. Often times, restaurants, bookstores, movie theaters, travel agencies, clothing shops, and all kinds of other stores will offer discounts to local students. They benefit because they hope you'll tell your friends about their store; you benefit because you get a discount. Don't be afraid to ask if places will offer you a student discount if you show your student ID. You may be pleasantly surprised by where you can save money!

Think Creatively

You're in college because you're smart. So use your noggin'! Can you save money by buying used books? Not ordering pizza so often? Can you buy a few items at the grocery store, such as cereal and milk, that you can keep in your room to avoid having to pay higher prices in the campus dining hall? Can you adjust your meal plan to a less-expensive option? Can you find a way to live off-campus, such as getting an apartment with a roommate or living in a fraternity or sorority? Maybe have the vacation come to you over Spring Break, instead of the reverse? Buy used books instead of new ones? Spend a day taking notes in a notebook about all the places where you spend money, and what you spend it on. Then use that big brain of yours to think creatively about other options.

Try to Avoid Using Credit Cards

Credit cards can be a lifesaver to a lot of people, but they come at a high cost. Do you really want to be saddled with credit card debt while still a student, and/or once you get your first job? Credit card debt can rack up quickly, and increasing numbers of college students are getting into financial trouble by using their credit cards during their college years. Only use a credit card if absolutely necessary. For example, if you just don't have money for books but obviously have to have them for class, find used books or see if you can check them out from the library. Having a brand new credit card doesn't mean that you should just buy all new texts at the first place you find them available.

Have an Emergency Plan

Sometimes, life just happens. You have to buy an unexpected flight home for a family emergency. You needed to get an emergency root canal. Your car got hit and you had to fix it in order to be able to commute to campus. Schools know this, and most have small emergency funds that you can tap into if you're out of other options.

Try checking with your financial aid or dean of students office. Explain your situation and see if your school has small, emergency loans that will help you out. Most schools want you to stay in school and not have to worry about the unexpected things that sometimes pop up. Additionally, if it's an option for you, don't be afraid to call home and ask for a little help. It's often easier to do so when things start getting tight instead of when they've gotten out of control.

Most students head to college looking forward to becoming independent and managing their lives on their own. Managing your money is part of that independence. Starting early, and starting strong, will help ensure that your college experience is spent focusing on the fun stuff instead of the financial part! Remember: if you're good to your money, it will be good to you.


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NEW Articles in October

I'm very lucky to have a gig here at About.com where I love what I do. Which means, of course, that I'm always busy keeping the site up to date with information that can help make students' lives just a little easier.

This month, for example, I've written new articles on a variety of topics ranging from last-minute Halloween costumes to how the federal student loan changes might affect you.

New College Life articles for October:

(And if you ever have article ideas or topics you'd like to see covered, let me know!)


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Surviving College Finals

College finals is often the most difficult time of the semester. Knowing how to prepare before, handle the stress during, and celebrate afterward can therefore become key elements to your success. Because who wants to blow an entire semester worth of work with a bad performance during college finals?

Preparing for and Managing the Stress of College Finals

How you prepare yourself -- intellectually and otherwise -- for finals week can have a major impact on your performance on exams and papers. So what can you do to make sure you're in tip-top shape?

Finding Help with Final Papers

Final papers may seem less stressful because you can do them in your room and (often) on your own schedule, but they sometimes take up a lot more work and time than an in-class exam. Learn the best ways to make sure your paper adequately reflects your mastery -- if not your sheer dominance! -- over the course material.

Finding Help with Final Exams

Ah, the infamous college exam: days (weeks? months?) worth of studying for a test that only takes a few hours. How can you make sure you walk out feeling proud instead of panicked?

Dealing with the Aftermath -- Both Good and Bad

No matter how you prepare for finals week, something unexpected inevitably happens -- either for the better or for the worse. Learn what to do in any post-finals situation.

Perhaps the most important thing to remember during finals week is, of course, to take care of your precious brain. Sure, you can study all semester, know the material, be ready to write a rock-star final paper ... but if you're sleep deprived, hungry, stressed, or distracted, finals week will get the better of you. Good luck!


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